Are you afraid to be alone?

I was, yes. I have struggled through so many disappointing relationships in my life, and been so use to heartbreak,  I basically decided I was destined to never be loved by a man, (pathetic) only liked, and that marriage just wasn't in my future, so I began to act like that, and not open up to the men I dated, and not care as much as possible, I have this dillemma that what if i was destined to be alone?

its a stupid thingking but as what i am experiencing now makes me feel sad and worried, but when i have this positive spirit in mind i begin to start thingking a better way of life dealing about situation on how to view life on a brighter side keep in mind that we sometimes feel the feeling of being alone feel unloved and self pity. but come to think of this way use it as your advantage

You get to do whatever you want.   Being by yourself is the time to do things that you may not undertake when you are with a partner, or simply find out what it is that you really want to do.  Also, having to rely on your courage  and competence.  Lastly, being alone allows you to learn about yourself, and you may find that you like yourself more and more.  Make the best of time alone.  Don’t sit around wishing you were with someone else.  Think of all the things you can do and then do them.  Being alone is an opportunity, not a curse smile and celebrate life uniqueness cheers:-)


LIFE LESSONS I'VE LEARNED:

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
12.. It's OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.
16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind..
17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful. 

18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.
19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.
24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words ''In five years, will this matter?".
27. Always choose life.
28. Forgive everyone everything.
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
30. Time heals almost everything. Give time, time.
31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
33. Believe in miracles.
34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.
35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.
37. Your children get only one childhood.
38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.
41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
42. The best is yet to come.
43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
44. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.
45.Yield

what about you? What are the life lessons you've learned? 

Thanks for droppin by! ~xoxo~